Ignore... ALL the things!

I'm not an orchid... I'm a Lily. 
Orchids simply need to be ignored.  A drop of water,  tell them they are pretty and they will thrive. 
A Lily must be cared for.  Doted upon.  Fed water and sunshine to feel the full extent of what life can be. 
If you treat a Lily like an Orchid, it may find the strength to hold on but it's color will fade,  it's stalk will weaken, and eventually it will give up,  darken, and become dead on the inside.